Life can get irregular every now and then, and it’s no surprise that we lose hope., get Hopeless and can’t figure out why we do what we do.
In moments like these, we need to repeat ourselves of the great stuff around us. Here are some things to keep in mind that can always lift you up from hopeless:
Time heals everything
Whatever it is that you’ve been during, no matter how bad you think your situation is, it will go away.
You’ll learn to live with it, and in time you’ll forget it. You’ll get used to living without a certain person, or to a change in your lifestyle.
Opportunities are everywhere
With each new day the world offers you innumerable opportunities. Your job is to notice, be open to and make the best of them.
There are people out there who can support you and motivate you
Maybe you’re surrounded by toxic people, who only think about themselves, are negative, hopeless,complain about life, never listen to you, don’t respect your goals and constantly make you feel down.
You don’t need them. In fact, if you keep being around them, you won’t reach your goals or feel any more contented.
If you don’t like something about yourself, you can always change it
Don’t feel hopeless if you hate your body, aren’t productive, don’t have a skill, don’t like your style, aren’t confident or are too shy to talk to new people.
All that can be changed quite easily. Just know why you’re doing it and be reliable. If you have a definite desire, if you really want to improve your life and become a better version of yourself, take a small step each day towards that.
Nothing is as bad as it looks
We tend to overdramatize situations and often they appear
worse in our minds, when actually everything is temporary, and can be changed.
Keep that in brain.
Life is simple
So stop complicating it.
Ditch your great opportunity, stop trying to guess what people mean and ask directly.
You don’t need to do or have anything in picky to be happy
So many people seek joy in outer sources – they feel a void inside them and try to fill it by loving someone and spending all their time with him, by shopping, partying, moving to another place, changing their appearance, etc.
And they feel even not as good as after that.
Failures and mistakes are blessings
Failing is the biggest proof of trying, it means you’re doing something with your life and that puts you ahead of the average person, who just sits at home, trying to figure out what he wants and how he can get it.
Trying something and not succeeding, makes you more experienced, stronger, and lets you know what you shouldn’t do next time.
Better things are coming
That’s a fact. You just need to be open for these things, to look ahead to them, to believe you deserve that.
If it’s important, you’ll make time
Most of the time life is all about prioritizing. If you say you don’t have time for impressive, then it’s just not that significant to you.
If you learn how to let go, you’ll be free and peaceful
Letting go is a beautiful process. It helps you free your mind of the burden of the past and stop disturbing about what might happen tomorrow, and then lets you be right here, right now – completely present and mindful of what you’re doing.
The universe if working in your favor, not against you
Life may seem unfair now and then, but it’s because you take things too face-to-face expected too much or aren’t doing what you’re supposed to.
The universe gives you signs all the time, you just need to listen to them, notice and choose what is right.
Every next day is a chance to start over.
That’s a great fact and I love reminding myself of it whenever I feel bad.
It’s true. No matter how many times you failed, how bad you felt yesterday and what hardships you’ve been through, tomorrow is another day, and you decide how to start it and how to spend it.
At any instant you can meet that one person that will make you understand why it never worked out with others.
Never think that you’ll be alone for the rest of your life, or that there’s just no one for you out there. It may not have worked out with a bunch of people, but that’s just because you made wrong choices.
Maybe they had nothing to do with you, were completely different. But they have their own paths to walk, so just follow yours.
With all that in mind, how can you ever be desperate about life again?
It’s a beautiful journey, and surprises and opportunities are universally.